Thoughts of the mindful

Everyone could raise a child, but it’s different when you are taking care of your own lovechild..children of your own blood and flesh. Everybody could be a parent but there will always be a difference in how they live parenthood.

The grandparents would always treat their grandchildren differently compared on how they raise their children. They may have given the best treatment to their children the way they think they did but they should not dictate to the parents of their grandchildren to apply what they did before as they are different individuals. This is where they should be giving their children the chance to be parents themselves.

Anyway, some parents tend to imitate how their parents were to them and treat their children the same way, while there were also parents who learned from their childhood and chooses to make a difference plus correct the mishaps they had in their lives as a child brought by their own parents.

it was a beautiful morning though i have been up to work at 12mn hahaha…i have had a few hours of sleep but its ok to be up again because im to take care of my babies, two of whom im very fond of right now. oh how time passes by, they really are growing fast. at times i miss my son’s infant days while im enjoying my daughter’s. Its tiring to be honest, but they are my responsibilities. and once you see their smiles, all of the negative thoughts and emotions changes to excitement and happiness! gotta go, babies need momma’s assistance hahaha!

Keep up with the world and be alive! hell to those who bring other people down for them to reach the top…it happens in every situation..in each and everyone of us if not now maybe yesterday or tomorrow..just be ready..learn how to survive in a manner that you could be proud of! live your life and try to reach those dreams…if it ain’t happening, don’t blame the others or the One you believe in…try asking yourself about what you have done to be where you wanted to be…to be who you wanted to be…maybe then you’ll find the answers and you could start all over again..I myself have dreams of my own..i’m struggling to have all of it..some of those i have gotten i thought would remain to be just dreams, i’ve already realized…and at this moment, im contented and thankful for what i’ve got.. ;)

Change is inevitable.

At some point in time we might be enjoying things or the company of people we meet and eventually became part of our lives. After awhile, years gone by, we lose them. Then after sometime you find yourself in the same situation but with different people…you now wonder why the magic never happens as it did for you before..

Maybe the magic has gone..or those people are blinded with what you have..

People are people..each of them have different ways of understanding and thinking..maybe you just have to change some of your ways..

As we grow older we realize things in life…especially when an experience has affected your whole being.

Realizations which should give you the option for changing to a better you.